For those of us who have more than a few pounds to shed, it is usually requires a multimodal and multidimensional effort…To that end, below please find a brief summary of my Fabulous Foursome for Successful Weight Loss and Good Health. Learn more here as we hasten slowly towards our best health and lifestyle ever!
So it turns out that after taking at least 10,000 roads to wellness over the past 50 years, my sacred formula for success is a multimodal treatment plan combining Weight Watchers (WW), Yoga, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Forest Bathing.
I’m grateful to share that I feel light as a feather…even though I have a long way to go.
For those of you still struggling with the 3Fs (Food, Fat, Fear), I’d like to invite you to pick at least one of these paths to wellness and begin to unpack the multidimensional conflicts that keep you in the Plus Sizes.
I’ll briefly describe each one, and may you find your solution soon!
1. WW (Wellness WINS! aka Weight Watchers)
First, let’s deal with the food. Good food, good mood, right? Who is ever happy living in deprivation, with an “all or nothing” restrictive food plan? For years, I used to manage my weight by eating no sugar, flour, booze, fried food and more restrictions. I would be slim for a while, sometimes as long as seven years, but then as soon as I picked up one of the Forbidden Foods, e.g. chocolate, or wine, chips or whatever, I would blow it, fall off the wagon and spiral into a relapse of some sort. I believed the mythology that I could not eat one of anything, that for cookies, “One is not enough, but a thousand are too many.” I was caught up in a kind of cult-like belief that I was a food and sugar addict and had to live my life in a Black and White, All or Nothing paradigm or else I would binge my brains out and be morbidly obese.
I even found doctors and research that supported this idea! Fun fact: this is NOT true.
I needed some serious cognitive restructuring, which I finally received. I had to let go of my former Belief System (B.S.) and move into a new realm where I knew nothing about food. Oh yes, I reached the critical point of being sick and tired of being sick and tired, the best place to “achieve” the sweet surrender of the Beginner Mind. I finally let go of my B.S., and opened my mind to a new way of looking at food, fat, carbs and more. It happened to be unexpectedly delivered by WW.
WW is an international organization, so you can join anywhere in the world you have internet service. To sweeten this experiment, if you click on the link below, you can get a free month to try it out, and see how it goes. That’s what I did.
[GET YOUR FREE WW MONTH TODAY!]
Fast forward to 2019… now it’s easier than ever to eat what you love and lose weight. Click HERE for one month free to explore… You can refund your misery after 30 days if this does not work for you!
The best part of WW is the Mindfulness training…there’s a lot of brilliant cognitive restructuring built into the weekly lessons and discussions in the Workshops, and in the online Connect community. Plus the WW App is totally genius for tracking your food (comes with the membership). I’ve used MyFitnessPal and other weight loss/fitness apps – this one beats them out hands down.
Good health is wealth, GO FOR IT! [Note: don’t bother getting the WW cookbooks, because all of the recipes are online and the App.]
2. YOGA AND WEIGHT LOSS
I originally went to yoga just to STRETCH, to avoid getting injuries. In the past, I would get Plantar Fasciitis, shin splits, and other sports related injuries because even at my top weight, I did a lot of walking, hiking and working out but not enough stretching. Yikes. It was a bitter and painful lesson to me, that not enough stretching causes incapacitation!
Imagine my surprise, when I started attending yoga classes, and discovered how much unexpressed grief, rage, sadness and other negative emotions I could release on the mat. It was powerful for me, and continues to be a very helpful emotional release. I need it. It is definitely part of my weight loss success here. See if you can find a yoga studio near your home or office. Gentle suggestion: If you are new to yoga, or have any kind of physical challenge/injury/Plus Size body, start with the Restorative Yoga, which is deeply healing and relaxing. That’s what I did. I went from Restorative Yoga to more active Vinyasa Yoga (a bit more cardio). I do both now.
3. DIALECTICAL BEHAVIOR THERAPY (“DBT”), SOLUTION-FOCUSED THERAPY AT ITS BEST
These skills of Emotion Regulation, Distress Tolerance, Interpersonal Effectiveness and Mindfulness are necessary for the cognitive restructuring you need to move away from that toxic All or Nothing mindset, designed for Recovering Perfectionists like me.
Big Bonus: DBT relieves depression, anxiety, mood swings, OCD spectrum and other behavioral issues that can be barriers to weight loss, and other long term goal driven projects.
Grateful and shameless plug: If you follow my blog, you already know that I am a passionate trainer of evidence-based Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills and believe that these therapeutic psychoeducation courses should be taught in third grade to all humans. (Check out my web site for upcoming groups, which are running throughout the year.)
4. FOREST BATHING: DEEP HEALING FROM HIKING OR WALKING IN THE WOODS
If you’re still reading this, you are clearly motivated to make a change. So are you truly sick and tired of being sick and tired? Is this it? Are you DONE suffering with the 3Fs? If so, put on your walking shoes, sneakers or hiking boots and spend a little time on the trails.
It has been my experience that there is a healing force field that is very strong in the woods. You need to drag your tired self over there and walk, even for ten minutes, to get into that healing field. Even better, hug a few trees. See what happens.
Selby Gardens, Sarasota, FL (December, 2019)
Notice if you suddenly feel as if your head has cleared, and you feel a bit more peaceful, or, dare I say it, even joyful? I am 100% confident that the time I spend in the woods has contributed to my weight loss, and not just because I am burning fat on the trails. No, it is the good energy shift I feel. It helps me make more loving choices with my food, and my thoughts are transformed into better thoughts. If you are curious, you can learn more here…
You might also enjoy this article I wrote, that was published in the SOCIAL WORK VOICE journal, about the clinical benefits of walking in the woods, Walk and Talk Therapy: Moving Towards Wholeness.
In sum, I hope at least one of these four options — WW, Yoga, DBT or Forest Bathing — help you in your journey towards wholeness, lightness and feeling good in your body. May you find that peace with your food soon, however you get there!
Onward and Upward,
To your best life ever,
Lisa Wessan
Copyright © by Lisa Wessan 2019. All rights reserved.
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