The Lighter Side of Transformation

with Lisa Wessan, LICSW

Enhancing DBT: Key Takeaways from Our Class

“The best part has been the content of the class. It is all so relevant! I like the way you have created an organized pathway through the workbook. DBT is truly not a “do it yourself” program. I very much appreciate the weekly page numbers for relevant handouts and worksheets. The structure you’ve created is one of the best parts of the class.  I love that each class includes guided meditation.” 
M.M., New York, NY

“I was slightly surprised that the DBT group tends to have several participants who are a bit reticent. Group dynamics are always unpredictable. I thought the participants would be much more dramatic and self-aggrandizing. I expected them to be aggressively talkative or domineering. I also thought Lisa would have had to be very hands-on in managing that. Instead, the group is rather quiet, and everyone seems so delightfully ordinary. It’s been a relief, frankly. I’m not a weirdo for having intense emotions and struggling to manage them. I’m just an ordinary person and so are the other group members.  I also didn’t expect so much humor. Your sense of humor has been quite welcome. It adds levity and makes the class feel less burdensome or “heavy.” C.S.E., Cambridge, MA

Up next: Virtual DBT Distress Tolerance and Mindfulness Skills, June 10 – September 9, 2025. Tuesdays, 7:30 – 9 PM EST. There are still a few spots open. To learn more, visit Summer DBT Group.

Good health is wealth, go for it💙

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Reduce Political Anxiety: Use the 5 Calls App (free)

The singer/songwriter Joan Baez said it best, “Action is the antidote for despair.” Worrying is not going to help you, or this situation. Taking actions will reduce your anxiety. It will help you sleep better. It will also put your congressional representatives on alert for their constituents’ concerns.

You are not alone. The anxiety and fear arising from the often impulsive, reckless current political choices coming out of Washington, DC are hurting everyone. Democrats, Republicans and Libertarians are struggling to cope with these radical changes.

In my work, reducing anxiety and increasing distress tolerance are part of the process. When it comes to political anxiety, I know that it can be healthy to have a bit of a rant, but then you need to switch into action mode.

There are many ways to do this, but my favorite method is to use the 5 Calls App. Whoever designed this App deserves a Nobel prize! It lists most of the current issues that are being addressed. It’s very easy to use. You don’t have to give them your email or cell phone, just the zip code where you vote is enough.

I’ve read the science on these calls (https://5calls.org/why-calling-works/ – Scroll down to the cited articles). Yes, attending Town Hall meetings and making phone calls are the MOST EFFECTIVE ways to communicate with your congress people. Phone calls are definitely better than emails and faxes, for sure.

The App gives you sample scripts to use. I often start with the 5 Calls’ script, and then riff from that.

In sum, each phone call feels like a psychospiritual colonic cleanse! Ahh, sweet relief. You don’t have to make 5 calls in a day, one or two will do. Don’t take my word for it. Just take an action and see what happens.

Here is a screenshot of the 5 Calls App.

For example, yesterday I learned that President Trump plans to spend $92 million dollars for a military parade to celebrate his birthday. DOGE is slashing important science research at the National Institutes of Health. DOGE is also dismembering Social Security and other questionable reductions of important government services. Meanwhile, Trump is going to give himself a LAVISH parade?

Nay, nay! I immediately called my congress people and told them to block this $92 million waste ASAP. I shared my thoughts, feelings, and angst. I lowered my blood pressure and reduced my cortisol level. I felt so good after I made the calls. I am part of the solution! Being furious will not change anything. Being all wound up is ineffective. Clutching my pearls while shaking with disgust is NOT going to reverse this administration’s wrecking ball activities.

Remember, “Serenity is not freedom from the storm, but peace amidst the storm.”

May the 5 Calls App help you feel better, stronger, healthier and wiser.

Onward and Upward🌀
Lisa Wessan

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UP NEXT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills training (DBT) on Mindfulness & Distress Tolerance, May – August 2023 on Zoom

Serenity is not freedom from the storm, but peace amidst the storm…

Hi, 

Thank you for your continued interest in my work. I know I haven’t posted frequently enough here – but that will change soon!

For today, I’m excited to be teaching the next 14-week semester of Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills (DBT).  This semester we will cover Mindfulness & Distress Tolerance Skills.

🌀 Click here for the current  DBT FLYER. 

With the Distress Tolerance curriculum, your will learn valuable skills and interventions to help yourself reduce your intense stress and harsh feelings in the moment – to lower the volume on your anticipatory anxiety and catastrophic thinking. These DBT skills significantly help to reduce the escalation of your inflammatory emotions, and reduce the painful, polarized and perfectionist thinking that often cause your meltdowns. You will learn to find your peaceful “Middle Path” here. 

There are many powerful skills included in this semester’s work. It is the hope of this process that you will put together your own personal Distress Tolerance tool kit with the techniques that work the best for you.

Unfortunately, there is no “one size fits all” with these various techniques, so you do need to be a good scientist in the laboratory of your life and try them all out.  You will eventually find the ones that you love, and that will work quickly and effectively for you. 

Yes, I am looking forward to continuing this exciting journey towards wholeness with this next group.  I am also deeply honored to be sharing this transformative and useful educational process with you.

If this is not for you, but you have someone in mind for this next DBT Group, please have them contact me soon at my web site – currently www.MirthMaven.com – and fill out the Contact Form which helps them briefly tell me the best times to reach them (by phone) and guides them to check out their insurance (for the Out of Network benefit).  Otherwise this course is private pay, $980 for continuing students, $1215 for new students (includes one Intake session.)  

Onward and Upward✨

Lisa Wessan

“If you can recognize and accept your pain
without running away from it,
you will discover that although pain is there,
joy can also be there at the same time.”

~ Thich Nhat Hanh, No Mud, No Lotus


Lisa Wessan, LICSW, CLYL, RM
Psychotherapist, Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Trainer (DBT)
Life Coach, Author, Speaker, Consultant

www.MirthMaven.com
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