The Lighter Side of Transformation

with Lisa Wessan, LICSW

Mastering Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills (DBT): 14-Week Distress Tolerance and Mindfulness Skills Training, starts June 10, 2025, 7:30 – 9 PM EST (on Zoom)

Serenity is not freedom from the storm, but peace amidst the storm…

Hi, 

I’m excited to be teaching the next 14-week semester of Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills (DBT).  This semester we will cover Distress Tolerance & Mindfulness Skills.

πŸŒ€ Click here for the current DBT FLYER.

DBT skills significantly help to reduce the escalation of your inflammatory emotions. They also lessen the painful, polarized and perfectionist thinking that often cause your meltdowns. You will learn to find your peaceful “Middle Path” here. 

There are many powerful skills included in this semester’s work. We hope you will create your own personal Distress Tolerance tool kit. Use the techniques that work the best for you.

Unfortunately, there is no “one size fits all” with these various techniques. You need to be a good scientist in the laboratory of your life and try them all out.  To that end, DBT provides excellent handouts, worksheets and exercises to help you practice between sessions. You will eventually find the techniques that you love. These techniques will help you pause successfully. They will transform difficult moments into something better.

You might have someone in mind for this next DBT Group. If so, please have them contact me soon at my web site – www.lisawessan.com – and fill out the Contact Form. This private form helps them briefly tell me the best times to reach them. (It also guides them to check out their insurance for the Out of Network benefit.)

Please know, this is a NO-SPAM zone, and no one’s email is saved unless requested to do so.

14-week fee: $1120 for continuing students, $1420 for new students (includes one Intake session.)  

It is an honor to serve your friends, family, patients or clients with this powerful, experiential, transformative curriculum.

Onward and Upward✨
Lisa Wessan

β€œIf you can recognize and accept your pain
without running away from it,
you will discover that although pain is there,
joy can also be there at the same time.”

~ Thich Nhat Hanh, No Mud, No Lotus

Lisa Wessan, LICSW, CLYL, RM
Psychotherapist, Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Trainer (DBT),
Podcaster, Author, Speaker
www.lisawessan.com
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Reduce Political Anxiety: Use the 5 Calls App (free)

The singer/songwriter Joan Baez said it best, “Action is the antidote for despair.” Worrying is not going to help you, or this situation. Taking actions will reduce your anxiety. It will help you sleep better. It will also put your congressional representatives on alert for their constituents’ concerns.

You are not alone. The anxiety and fear arising from the often impulsive, reckless current political choices coming out of Washington, DC are hurting everyone. Democrats, Republicans and Libertarians are struggling to cope with these radical changes.

In my work, reducing anxiety and increasing distress tolerance are part of the process. When it comes to political anxiety, I know that it can be healthy to have a bit of a rant, but then you need to switch into action mode.

There are many ways to do this, but my favorite method is to use the 5 Calls App. Whoever designed this App deserves a Nobel prize! It lists most of the current issues that are being addressed. It’s very easy to use. You don’t have to give them your email or cell phone, just the zip code where you vote is enough.

I’ve read the science on these calls (https://5calls.org/why-calling-works/ – Scroll down to the cited articles). Yes, attending Town Hall meetings and making phone calls are the MOST EFFECTIVE ways to communicate with your congress people. Phone calls are definitely better than emails and faxes, for sure.

The App gives you sample scripts to use. I often start with the 5 Calls’ script, and then riff from that.

In sum, each phone call feels like a psychospiritual colonic cleanse! Ahh, sweet relief. You don’t have to make 5 calls in a day, one or two will do. Don’t take my word for it. Just take an action and see what happens.

Here is a screenshot of the 5 Calls App.

For example, yesterday I learned that President Trump plans to spend $92 million dollars for a military parade to celebrate his birthday. DOGE is slashing important science research at the National Institutes of Health. DOGE is also dismembering Social Security and other questionable reductions of important government services. Meanwhile, Trump is going to give himself a LAVISH parade?

Nay, nay! I immediately called my congress people and told them to block this $92 million waste ASAP. I shared my thoughts, feelings, and angst. I lowered my blood pressure and reduced my cortisol level. I felt so good after I made the calls. I am part of the solution! Being furious will not change anything. Being all wound up is ineffective. Clutching my pearls while shaking with disgust is NOT going to reverse this administration’s wrecking ball activities.

Remember, “Serenity is not freedom from the storm, but peace amidst the storm.”

May the 5 Calls App help you feel better, stronger, healthier and wiser.

Onward and UpwardπŸŒ€
Lisa Wessan

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